You want to be firm and honest, but you can also balance this with being suave! Being an alpha male requires you to walk a tight-rope of honesty and wisdom. You can still be honest without disclosing everything at once!

You have to do what is going to actually make you happy, and you have to stand by it with conviction. Act like you are in control of the situation, and be patient. If she says that she would not be interested in opening things up to other people, just wink at her and say ‘ok dear, whatever you say,’ like you are seeing through her ‘shield’ and know that she secretly has desires of her own that she isn’t telling you about. Of course, there is always the possibility that you could open up to your wife about it, in the hopes that it could one-day turn into a threesome, a swinger situation, or an open-relationship-type scenario… but there is also a risk associated with this approach.At the end of the day, if your wife simply isn’t interested in any sort of future where you and her friend (or any other woman) can be involved in any sort of open-relationship, you will need to decide what that means to you. One huge piece of relationship advice for men fantasizing over their wife’s friend is to stop glamorizing a terrible situation.

Continue to fantasize about your wife’s hot friend, continue to hang out with her and enjoy the flirtation, and savor the little moments that turn you on… but do not fully act on it or tell your wife about it. There is a chance that a frank, candid discussion about your attraction to her hot friend could be a positive experience where you learn about one-another. She might even confess a secret crush of her own, and the two of you might share a bonding moment over it!I overheard an older woman at work complaining about how her husband only does missionary in the bedroom and made a joke about how I would be a million times better in bed than him. I never thought of her in a sexual way before that, but when she approached me after hours and asked me to rent a hotel room with her, I accepted — and I’m glad I did. It was the kinkiest sex I’ve ever had. Handcuffs. Whipped cream. Nipple clamps. She wanted me to give her everything her husband wouldn’t.” — Westley, 30 It is possible (though highly unlikely) that you can do both. That would obviously usually be the best-case scenario. If honest communication is the best thing for relationships (and it often is), then it might actually be a good idea to talk to your wife at least a little bit about this situation, especially if you plan to do nothing about it without her approval. If you like your wife’s friend and think that she’s hot, this is what you need to know before doing anything! The Alpha-Male Mentality

An autopsy, pending a toxicology report, would determine the cause of death, the Los Angeles county medical examiner said. Foul play was not suspected, said Cap Scot Williams, who leads the city’s police robbery homicide division that is investigating Perry’s death. It is important to be aware of your true feelings and what you really want. What If You Have Already Slept With Your Wife’s Friend? But her pals keep forgetting that she’s no longer available for tequila-fuelled nights out. She loves her son and her boyfriend but the loneliness is killing her. Plus, if you were to actually make a move and do the deed with your wife’s hot friend, you may instantly regret it and realize that it was just a mistake driven by a purely sexual impulse.But there is also another element to consider here as well (yes, another element… these are very complicated dynamics). The Friends co-creators Marta Kauffman and David Crane, along with the executive producer Kevin Bright, issued a joint statement on Sunday, using a play on the show’s episode titles to say, “This truly is The One Where Our Hearts Are Broken.”

Maybe your wife is actually secretly into the idea of having sex with other people, but just hasn’t told you about it because she is afraid of what you would think?

Wifelovers are turned on by women who are already taken.

If you don’t actually want to be with your wife, then what is stopping you from leaving your marriage and pursuing her friend? Writing this list, I begin to feel happier about our friendship and more open to getting it on a better footing. Rather than berating her for disappointing me again, I start to feel curious about what is going on for her. For the first time, I take my focus off how she makes me feel and think about how she may be feeling to act so selfishly. I have a suspicion it’s more than tiredness, which is proven right: I learn she suffers from anxiety, which affects her choices. That’s not to say I am not hurt by her, but I realise I have options over how to respond, beyond my usual ‘huff’ reaction, and feeling rejected.